June’s gonna get away from me and then I’m going to feel the failure more, so here’s a blog post in recap, a replay of a little ditty I like to call “So This is How We Treat Each Other Now.”
The ditty with verses about how during and after the election the catfish walked off wearing a red trucker’s hat, and you miss that catfish, but maybe them dumping you like a school lunch was the final indicator that maybe you shouldn’t have spent so much time getting attached to start with.
Not great timing, though.
So the introvert spends some time alone, finding out more about humanity in fiction than in people. I hate doing that. But I’m alone a lot anyway, alone in passions and in person, so might as well disappear into empathy:
This book, like many others, utilizes a wild animal to demonstrate kindness. One of the characters gets it. The rest would rather not go there. While I don’t advocate befriending foxes in order to have companionship, I am encouraged by the fact that foxes or rabbits or squirrels or seagulls don’t use social media.
Yep, it’s a blog…online, nonetheless…and I’ll drop the subject there.
It turns out that my friends can be found in the following pools:
- People I work with
- People I worked with
- People I used to write with (2)
- People I buy stuff from
Not a great pool. Some great people in it, but they are busy, and most don’t read. The danger is, the ones who have the most time for me are the first group and the last.
Which means I’m working too much and I’m spending too much and I have no boundaries. Alone time, then. With foxes. Not so much social media. I don’t want to see who else has walked away because I’m me, and not, instead, loved me because I’m me.
On to what I have been doing lately, as Jamaica would start. ✨
What I Have Been Reading Lately: The afore-mentioned fox fable, written by a lovely Brit from the Guardian. Between this lady, Jeanette Winterson, JoJo Moyes, and JK Rowling, the UK seems to have my ears these days. I am still working on the Chabon book, though (Moonglow)…more like lingering in it. Today’s library visit will hopefully include a book on Islamic issues and an old Edward Abbey favorite my brother got me hooked on about six years ago.
What I Have Been Watching Lately: Still watching Last Week Tonight, still working my way through the entire series of West Wing (again; I usually do this about once a year), still watching a LOT of baseball. I say “watching” but most of it is the free MLB game of the day playing on my phone and I glance at it if I need a distraction from another work nightmare. The broadcasts are a boys club of guys trying to crack each other up and sometimes they succeed in getting me to do that. The free game is rarely the Giants, which is probably a good thing; I still bleed black and orange, but years like this means I get back to the passion of the game in general…and other players in their glory. Also, I am hooked to the footage of the Flash and the exciting installments of his wins and losses.
I’m also still watching Real Time. Judge away, America; while you’re at it, I also like other stuff I’m not supposed to, like Hemingway’s fiction and Woody Allen films. The floor is yours to throw stones. Yes, Bill Maher does offend me from time to time. But he wakes me up, too, like Friday’s opening segment with Maajid Nawaz. Some of my teachers in university angered me beyond measure and got me thinking in the same semester, and I’m used to be offended in otherwise productive discussions.
What I’m Watching On Film: Last weekend was The Edge of Seventeen–dark, but I love the actors, so that one’s a keeper. (Pro tip: I have to dock all movies with puke scenes as 4 instead of 5 stars, so this film had a blemish in case you are also of the nature that you don’t feel you should have to pay any kind of admission price for pieces where someone pukes/pees/poops/etc.). On the rental list is The United Kingdom (David Oyelowo strikes again) and I Am Not Your Negro, which I saw at an indie theatre here in San Diego but which I loved enough to watch again. Also, I have been rewatching, over and over, the movie Paterson with Adam Driver and Moonlight. They soothe me. When movies about verse-writing bus drivers and violence soothe you something’s probably not right in Denmark, but that’s my inclination these days.
What I’m Listening To: for starters, today with the current social situation, this. That song is a recurring theme in my life, and I take full responsibility. Also, a band called First Aid Kit has a lovely song called “I Found A Way” that paints me over so that I can sit in a shadow and nod my head to the beat and agreement. Also, the remastered Sgt Pepper’s, and the solo album by Dan Auerbach (don’t strain yourself; if you are trying to place that name then here’s a hint–Black Keys). I have got a dosage of country from the latest season of The Ranch on Netflix, a wonderfully senseless show that I can also play while working to keep from getting spooked (like cattle might), and danced a little in my living room with Garth Brooks’s “Friends in Low Places.”
I do get out, too…dancing on Friday night to a jazz band by the harbor…walks down the jacaranda lane of Kettner…fireworks…cattle drives to promote the local county fair.
Still looking for humanity, after all. ♥️